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MEET AIDAN
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As a father of two, I understand the struggle that you face as you adapt to your new role. In April 2020 just after the birth of our second son I was lost, frustrated and angry!
I went from elation to the darkest low in a matter of days. My world was spinning out of control and I could not understand why!
I became a dad for the first time in 2017 and I nailed it! I took it in my stride and just got on with it. I never questioned my competence and I always felt like I had it all under control. But 9 days into our new adventure and the enormity of what I was facing hit me hard and fast.
The truth is I’d been in a dark place for a long time but I’d chosen to ignore it and as we faced lockdown with two under 3s, I lost all hope.
To be clear, I’m a good dad and I never believed I wasn't capable of being good at it, but at a time when I had everything I ever wanted, I felt empty, lost and angry.
Before becoming a dad, I pushed myself to the brink of collapse and found myself isolated and in need of support. That's why I'm passionate about creating a community for fathers that provides the same level of education, resources, and support that mothers have access to.
I took my eye off the ball, ignored the pressure and ploughed on and that approach almost left me with nothing. I had one chance to reset, reflect on the impact I wanted to have and I want to help you to do the same.
Let me be very clear. I was ready for the practicalities of fatherhood but I wasn't ready for the mental strain and the seismic shift in the world around me.
MEET AIDAN
about
As a father of two, I understand the struggle that you face as you adapt to your new role. In April 2020 just after the birth of our second son I was lost, frustrated and angry!
I went from elation to the darkest low in a matter of days. My world was spinning out of control and I could not understand why!
I became a dad for the first time in 2017 and I nailed it! I took it in my stride and just got on with it. I never questioned my competence and I always felt like I had it all under control. But 9 days into our new adventure and the enormity of what I was facing hit me hard and fast.
The truth is I’d been in a dark place for a long time but I’d chosen to ignore it and as we faced lockdown with two under 3s, I lost all hope.
To be clear, I’m a good dad and I never believed I wasn't capable of being good at it, but at a time when I had everything I ever wanted, I felt empty, lost and angry.
Before becoming a dad, I pushed myself to the brink of collapse and found myself isolated and in need of support. That's why I'm passionate about creating a community for fathers that provides the same level of education, resources, and support that mothers have access to.
I took my eye off the ball, ignored the pressure and ploughed on and that approach almost left me with nothing. I had one chance to reset, reflect on the impact I wanted to have and I want to help you to do the same.
Let me be very clear. I was ready for the practicalities of fatherhood but I wasn't ready for the mental strain and the seismic shift in the world around me.
As a father you cannot let your struggle dim the light on the most incredible journey. No matter how trivial you think it might be, accept it, and share it with someone you trust. It must not consume you because you are made for so much more.
Why
Why
The Modern Fatherhood club
The Modern Fatherhood club
TMFC is a space designed specifically for fathers to connect, share, and learn from one another.
Why Trust Us?
The Modern Fatherhood Club is built on real experiences and authentic stories and has been designed to help you navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood. We are committed to transparency, honesty, and accountability to our members. Our values and mission reflect collective voice of the modern father, the challenges he faces and the his unwavering commitment to his family.
Why Listen To Us?
We understand the unique pressures of modern fatherhood because we've lived them. Through our educational resources, workshops, and community discussions, we provide evidence-based advice and practical solutions to help you succeed in your role as a father.
Why Join Now?
As a new dad, you may feel overwhelmed and isolated. That's why we're here to provide support, advice and an environment where you can talk through challenges and work towards solutions.
Joining our community today means gaining access to a network of like-minded fathers who share your experiences and struggles. You'll also find the tools to balance your responsibilities as a parent, partner, and individual.
The Modern Fatherhood Club is a space designed specifically for fathers to connect, share, and learn from one another.
Why Trust Us?
The Modern Fatherhood Club is built on real experiences and authentic stories and has been designed to help you navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood. We are committed to transparency, honesty, and accountability to our members. Our values and mission reflect collective voice of the modern father, the challenges he faces and the his unwavering commitment to his family.
Why Listen To Us?
We understand the unique pressures of modern fatherhood because we've lived them. Through our educational resources, workshops, and community discussions, we provide evidence-based advice and practical solutions to help you succeed in your role as a father.
Why Join Now?
As a new dad, you may feel overwhelmed and isolated. That's why we're here to provide support, advice and an environment where you can talk through challenges and work towards solutions.
Joining our community today means gaining access to a network of like-minded fathers who share your experiences and struggles. You'll also find the tools to balance your responsibilities as a parent, partner, and individual.
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The Modern Fatherhood club
The Modern Fatherhood club
Here's why you should consider hiring us to engage and support the fathers within your organisation.
Why Trust Us?
The Modern Fatherhood Club is built on real experiences and authentic stories and has been designed to help your employees and leaders navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood.
Why Listen To Us?
Dads need to be heard and that starts with creating space for men. Our extensive knowledge and expertise can provide practical, engaging solutions tailored to the specific needs of your working dads.
Why Partner with Us
- Creating a Supportive Community: We help you build a workplace community that supports honest, hardworking dads, fostering their personal and professional growth.
- Standing with Fathers: We recognise the significant test of fatherhood and stand with your employees, helping them balance their roles and responsibilities.
- Education and Support Programs: We offer tailored educational resources and support programs to build strong, resilient, and emotionally connected dads within your organisation.
- Promoting Authenticity and Respect: We promote respect for the role of modern fathers, acknowledging their unique life experiences and contributions.
Join the growing number of employers working with us and demonstrating a commitment to working families.
Contact us today to learn more we can benefit your organisation.
Here's why you should consider hiring us to engage and support the fathers within your organisation.
Why Trust Us?
The Modern Fatherhood Club is built on real experiences and authentic stories and has been designed to help your employees and leaders navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood.
Why Listen To Us?
Dads need to be heard and that starts with creating space for men. Our extensive knowledge and expertise can provide practical, engaging solutions tailored to the specific needs of your working dads.
Why Partner with Us
- Creating a Supportive Community: We help you build a workplace community that supports honest, hardworking dads, fostering their personal and professional growth.
- Standing with Fathers: We recognise the significant test of fatherhood and stand with your employees, helping them balance their roles and responsibilities.
- Education and Support Programs: We offer tailored educational resources and support programs to build strong, resilient, and emotionally connected dads within your organisation.
- Promoting Authenticity and Respect: We promote respect for the role of modern fathers, acknowledging their unique life experiences and contributions.
Contact us today to learn more we can benefit your organisation.
"The disconnect between a father and his employer can create unnecessary pressure both at work and home."
Aidan, Founder of TMFC
"The disconnect between a father and his employer can create unnecessary pressure both at work and home."
Aidan, Founder of TMFC
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A Simple Message
Fatherhood is tough, but it is also beautiful and fulfilling beyond words but if you’re judgement is clouded then you might just miss the beauty in the simple things… And those are the things that matter most to them.
A Simple Message
Fatherhood is tough, but it is also beautiful and fulfilling beyond words but if you’re judgement is clouded then you might just miss the beauty in the simple things… And those are the things that matter most to them.
Are You
FRUSTRATED, QUICK TO LOSE YOUR PATIENCE, FEELING ISOLATED, OVERWHELMED AND LACKING CONFIDENCE?
Does This Sound Like You?
I've been where you are! I was caught up in the whirlwind of responsibilities, felt the weight of expectation and honestly I struggled to feel any connection with our youngest in those early days.
In my darkest moments, I disconnected from the joys of fatherhood and focused on everything else and tried to push on until the mental fatigue and exhaustion caught me out. Let's face it, fatherhood has you:
- Pushing on regardless of the impact it is having on your health, wellbeing and relationship with your kids.
- Sacrificing the all-important balance necessary to feel confident and less conflicted in your role.
- Struggling to find the time to decompress and when they need you to be present, you are distracted and distant.
- Unable to say ‘No’ even when you know it will mean you feeling more stressed and distant around your kids.
I had pushed myself to the very edge. My mind and body had given me plenty of warnings, but I ignored them in the pursuit of giving my family everything I thought they needed.
I came close to the edge and I even looked over it, but then it hit me, stepping over the edge was far worse for them than it would have ever been for me.
Are You
FRUSTRATED, QUICK TO LOSE YOUR PATIENCE, FEELING ISOLATED, OVERWHELMED AND LACKING CONFIDENCE?
Does This Sound Like You?
I've been where you are! I was caught up in the whirlwind of responsibilities, felt the weight of expectation and honestly I struggled to feel any connection with our youngest in those early days.
In my darkest moments, I disconnected from the joys of fatherhood and focused on everything else and tried to push on until the mental fatigue and exhaustion caught me out. Let's face it, fatherhood has you:
- Pushing on regardless of the impact it is having on your health, wellbeing and relationship with your kids.
- Sacrificing the all-important balance necessary to feel confident and less conflicted in your role.
- Struggling to find the time to decompress and when they need you to be present, you are distracted and distant.
- Unable to say ‘No’ even when you know it will mean you feeling more stressed and distant around your kids.
I had pushed myself to the very edge. My mind and body had given me plenty of warnings, but I ignored them in the pursuit of giving my family everything I thought they needed.
I came close to the edge and I even looked over it, but then it hit me, stepping over the edge was far worse for them than it would have ever been for me.
Learning
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The New Dad Recharge
Your children need you on form, less stressed, more focused and clear on the things that matter.
Lifetime access to dynamic on-demand modules, designed to equip you with the knowledge, skills & tools to help you maximise your impact with your kids.
In this course, you will learn:
- Module 1: Build Confidence, Reflect On Your Story
- Module 2: Simplify Your Role For Maximum Impact
- Module 3: Become The Dad They Need.
The Ultimate Dad Course.
Become the Dad They Need You to Be
Introducing The Ultimate Dad Course—the antenatal course designed specifically for dads. This isn't about perfecting nappy changes or mastering the art of baby burping—those are skills you’ll pick up naturally. Instead, this course equips you with the confidence, resilience, and knowledge needed to support your partner throughout her pregnancy and early motherhood.
Inside this training, you will discover:
- Expect the Unexpected: Understand the key stages of pregnancy, birth, and early parenthood.
- Essential Fatherhood Insights: Get the knowledge every dad needs, from emotional support to practical preparation.
- Actionable Advice: Clear, straightforward tips to help you confidently navigate each phase.
Fatherhood Unleashed: Maximise Your Impact
Unlock the true potential of your fatherhood journey with Fatherhood Unleashed. This workshop is crafted to help you reconnect with your purpose as a father, gain the confidence you need in your role, and deepen the connection with your children.
Inside this training, you will discover:
- Discover Your Inner Strength: Uncover the influences that drive you as a father and learn how to harness them to guide with confidence.
- Define Your Unique Purpose: Identify and connect with the purpose that shapes your decision-making as a father.
- Understand Your Motivations: Reflect on the motivations behind your actions and how they impact your fatherhood journey.
- Align with Your Purpose: Lead with purpose, clarity, and confidence by aligning your actions with your fatherhood goals.
LEARNING
EXPERIENCES
The New Dad Recharge
Your children need you on form, less stressed, more focused and clear on the things that matter.
Lifetime access to dynamic on-demand modules, designed to equip you with the knowledge, skills & tools to help you maximise your impact with your kids.
In this course, you will learn:
- Module 1: Build Confidence, Reflect On Your Story
- Module 2: Simplify Your Role For Maximum Impact
- Module 3: Become The Dad They Need.
The Ultimate Dad Course.
Become the Dad They Need You to Be
Introducing The Ultimate Dad Course—the antenatal course designed specifically for dads. This isn't about perfecting nappy changes or mastering the art of baby burping—those are skills you’ll pick up naturally. Instead, this course equips you with the confidence, resilience, and knowledge needed to support your partner throughout her pregnancy and early motherhood.
Inside this training, you will discover:
- Expect the Unexpected: Understand the key stages of pregnancy, birth, and early parenthood.
- Essential Fatherhood Insights: Get the knowledge every dad needs, from emotional support to practical preparation.
- Actionable Advice: Clear, straightforward tips to help you confidently navigate each phase.
Fatherhood Unleashed: Maximise Your Impact
Unlock the true potential of your fatherhood journey with Fatherhood Unleashed. This workshop is crafted to help you reconnect with your purpose as a father, gain the confidence you need in your role, and deepen the connection with your children.
Inside this training, you will discover:
- Discover Your Inner Strength: Uncover the influences that drive you as a father and learn how to harness them to guide with confidence.
- Define Your Unique Purpose: Identify and connect with the purpose that shapes your decision-making as a father.
- Understand Your Motivations: Reflect on the motivations behind your actions and how they impact your fatherhood journey.
- Align with Your Purpose: Lead with purpose, clarity, and confidence by aligning your actions with your fatherhood goals.
Testimonials
Proven Outcomes
"The Modern Fatherhood Club is an excellent initiative run by good hearted people. My experience of attending Aidan’s sessions has been personally fulfilling and I highly recommend them to others"
Sami Sahni, United Kingdom
"The Modern Fatherhood Club is an excellent place to meet other fathers and share our tragedies and triumphs. I would really recommend the service as it enables dads to share the fatherhood experience person-to-person"
Dave Chen, London
"Aidan is a passionate advocate for the wellbeing of fathers and the need to build a community that supports this. The Modern Fatherhood Club is a great space to meet other fathers and receive support through sharing experiences."
Local Dad, Epsom
Testimonials
Proven Outcomes
"The Modern Fatherhood Club is an excellent initiative run by good hearted people. My experience of attending Aidan’s sessions has been personally fulfilling and I highly recommend them to others"
Sami, United Kingdom
"The Modern Fatherhood Club is an excellent place to meet other fathers and share our tragedies and triumphs. I would really recommend the service as it enables dads to share the fatherhood experience person-to-person"
Dave, London
"Aidan is a passionate advocate for the wellbeing of fathers and the need to build a community that supports this. The Modern Fatherhood Club is a great space to meet other fathers and receive support through sharing experiences."
Local Dad, Epsom
PODCAST
FATHERHOOD IN FOCUS
Welcome to ”Fatherhood In Focus,” the podcast dedicated to supporting, educating, and inspiring you on your fatherhood journey. Hosted by Aidan, founder of The Modern Fatherhood Club and a father of two, this podcast delves into the real, raw, and often challenging experiences of modern fatherhood.
In each episode, we tackle the pressing issues that you face, from mental health struggles and relationship dynamics to parenting tips and personal growth.
My mission is to provide you with actionable insights, heartfelt stories, and practical advice to help you navigate the ups and downs of fatherhood with confidence and clarity.
Episodes
Episode 1 - The Realities of Fatherhood: Struggles, Strength, and Growth
One day, I hit rock bottom and admitted, “I can’t cope, I don’t want to be alive anymore!” That moment changed everything. It lifted the weight and gave me the strength to fight back. Listen To More
Episode 4 - Understanding Postnatal Depression in Fathers
I highlight the importance of recognising the signs of PND, the impact it can have on the family, and the necessity of seeking support.
Listen To More
Episode 7- Navigating Paternity Leave
I explore the often-overlooked pressures on modern fathers and the importance of taking time to bond with your newborn and support your partner.
Listen To More
PODCAST
FATHERHOOD IN FOCUS
Welcome to ”Fatherhood In Focus,” the podcast dedicated to supporting, educating, and inspiring you on your fatherhood journey. Hosted by Aidan, founder of The Modern Fatherhood Club and a father of two, this podcast delves into the real, raw, and often challenging experiences of modern fatherhood.
In each episode, we tackle the pressing issues that you face, from mental health struggles and relationship dynamics to parenting tips and personal growth.
My mission is to provide you with actionable insights, heartfelt stories, and practical advice to help you navigate the ups and downs of fatherhood with confidence and clarity.
Episodes
Episode 1 - The Realities of Fatherhood: Struggles, Strength, and Growth
One day, I hit rock bottom and admitted, “I can’t cope, I don’t want to be alive anymore!” That moment changed everything. It lifted the weight and gave me the strength to fight back. Listen To More
Episode 4 - Understanding Postnatal Depression in Fathers
I highlight the importance of recognising the signs of PND, the impact it can have on the family, and the necessity of seeking support.
Listen To More
Episode 7- Navigating Paternity Leave
I explore the often-overlooked pressures on modern fathers and the importance of taking time to bond with your newborn and support your partner.
Listen To More
Download it Free Now.
Feel Less Stressed, More Present And Give Them What They Need.
CLICK THE BUTTON BELOW to discover the steps exact steps I took to make time for myself, avoid burning out and find the balance needed to feel like I was the father they needed me to be.
Download it Free Now.
Feel Less Stressed, More Present And Give Them What They Need.
CLICK THE BUTTON BELOW to discover the steps exact steps I took to make time for myself, avoid burning out and find the balance needed to feel like I was the father they needed me to be.
